I have realised that people who quickly or constantly judge, label, compare, analyse – have a self-acceptance issue, because they are insecure about their appearance, money, status, abilities & relationships
True love is based on CHOICE and not NEED. The issue with people who grew up in conditionally loving families (majority of us), as in who were only appreciated for the benefit they provided (achievements, loyalty, submissive obedience, conflict avoidance) to their parents/immediate circle and internalised that that is the basis for all relationships - benefits received and provided. No matter how you view it, it's the emblem of toxic relationships.
One of the biggest and slightly latest irony of our time is that we have equated attention to contribution. Just because people follow you or clap for you or take your pictures doesn't mean they respect you. This is mainly due to the human nature of all hunter gatherer tribes to rank themselves amongst others for status.
Thought of the day - The smarter you are, the easier it is to come up with bullshit to avoid what makes you uncomfortable. Some of that is due to…
Note: This article is largely based on excerpt from Everything is F*cked by Mark Manson. The catharsis builds on the philosophical notion of nature of Values. READ more: For application and…
EMOTIONAL MATURITY VALUES
I was discussing the ironies of human condition and related perils with my inner circle (conveniently). One of friends quoted a saying in Urdu, which loosely translates into "Wisdom is…
Their pathologies match one another perfectly – ‘The one who demands others should sacrifice themselves for them and a martyr who constantly seeks for a sword to fall on! It’s like a junkie’s hit for another round of cocaine – for these people confusion, mindreading, conflict & dysfunctional attachment equals 'connection' & 'love'
It's one of those lessons, AFTER THE FACT EPIPHANY, like falling down the stairs, getting caught in a out of control rip while surfing, skinned and chafed knees after downhill…
I feel it's the right time to discuss, acknowledge and address the subset of colour based superiority. Unlike racism this is perpetuated by coloured or minorities themselves. The same moral…
Embrace your curiosity, uniqueness and the power to shape your own destiny.
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